In other articles by Psychology and the mind we talked about how people attract and captivate us. They are usually individuals who radiate magic and make us want to spend a lot of time with them. This emotional connection that they awaken becomes almost irresistible, and the moments next to them are moments that can become unforgettable.
But not everyone is attractive, and while we can all maximize our attractiveness and increase our chances of unleashing that magnetism, there are people who adopt bad habits that reduce their chances of success.
When it comes to attraction, not everything is physical
Many tend to associate attractiveness with the physical, but when it comes to being attractive, not everything is physical. Of course, we all know of cases of very attractive people who might be with someone with a movie physique, but who nonetheless they are with someone who at first glance does not look like a person with particularly striking physical features.
The needs of the person being seduced and possibly the particular personality of the seducer may be reasons for one person to be attracted to another. Who is able to stop the feet of these sweeping individuals who also have great self-confidence? Obviously, they won’t be suitable for everyone, but most probably will.
Gestures and attitudes of people who do not seduce
Of course, there are also people who are on the other end. People who, when it comes to attraction, do everything or almost everything wrong And what habits or actions do these people have? Well, these are usually people who:
1. They don’t believe in themselves
One of the reasons a person isn’t attractive is that “you don’t feel like an attractive person.” So simple! It is almost impossible for people who do not believe in themselves to make others believe that they are attractive..
These people are often characterized by having such low self-confidence that it limits them when it comes to feeling comfortable with other people and showing their true self, they don’t know what your strengths are and they may even be. make you see someone. are not.
To seduce, the first thing you have to be clear about is that you have to believe in yourself, otherwise it is easy for everything to go wrong.
Recommended article: “False Self-Confidence: The Heavy Mask of Deception”
2. They are not proactive
While people who feel attractive usually take the first step, unattractive people do the exact opposite. They have a great fear of being rejected, What prevents them from acting. You will rarely be an attractive person if you don’t take your rejections as normal and straighten it out. For them to reject you, you must have tried.
3. They are shy
It is difficult for them to start a conversation because they are usually shy people and, as I said in the previous point, they feel great shame and fear rejection. In contrast, attractive people are usually open people with great communication skills.
4. They are impatient
When you meet someone unattractive, it is very likely that he is so dependent on you that he does not remember himself. These are the people who are attentive all day long to what you are doing, and who may call you several times a day, which in the long run makes you sick and tired.
Attractive people, on the other hand, are so aware of their things that they end up creating certain expectations, and that makes you the one who wants to know more about them.
5. Think negatively
Being people with little self-confidence and great shyness often thinks negatively. Think of an optimistic person. Surely you would like to spend the whole day by his side, right? Because in addition to seeing problems as opportunities, they are there to encourage you in difficult times. Unattractive people do the exact opposite. they infect their bad vibes.
6. They don’t have an active social life
Have you noticed that attractive people enjoy contact with others? They are often considered popular because they easily connect with other people. In addition to possessing great social skills, these often have concerns and hobbies that allow them to surround themselves with other people so that they generally have an active social life. On the other hand, people who are not particularly attractive generally do not exhibit this behavior and are generally reserved people.
7. They are neither funny nor funny
A sense of humor is often one of the most valued qualities in interpersonal relationships. Who doesn’t want to have fun times and laugh all day long with friends or a partner? Unattractive people generally don’t have fun in company and rarely show their sense of humor, if they have it.