How to know when someone doesn’t want you, in 30 elements

Hard, yes. But necessary.

The sooner we realize which people around us don’t want us, the sooner we can receive letters about it and decide what course of action we are going to take. It’s hard to love those who don’t love us, and often continuing with this type of relationship leads to a loss of self-esteem which causes us to start loving ourselves less and less. It is good to have the right tools to know how to identify these people.

Do you want me or not?

Here, I leave you with some key points to be able to realize it. Obviously, they are indicative, because not everyone behaves the same and sometimes some of these behaviors can be due to other factors.

But if in reading these articles we feel identified with the majority, what is real is that we are not in an egalitarian or healthy relationship, and knowing is the first step.

30 things you may notice when this person doesn’t want you

1. You feel bad for asking her to spend time with you. You feel like you’re begging him.

2. He does not support you in your decisions. On the contrary, they don’t even seem to care: his attitude is indifferent.

3. Don’t appreciate your opinion. You feel that your opinion is the only valid one. He never asks for your opinion.

4. Usually isn’t when you need it. There is only room in your calendar for him or her when he or she wants it, whatever your needs.

5. He usually doesn’t have details with you. A “I saw this and I remembered you,” a good night message, something.

6. Don’t care what you say. You feel that he is not listening to you or that he is not interested in what you say to him even if it is important to you.

7. You feel it’s above you. You’ve given him so much power that you don’t feel like he’s up to it.

8. He don’t want the best for you if he loses a bit with it. Put your needs ahead of yours in most cases.

9. It doesn’t make you feel comfortable with their comments. He usually doesn’t have positive, pleasant messages about you.

ten. You feel that you are not yourself when you are next to this person. Try to please as much as you can, even if you do things you don’t agree with.

11. You feel like you don’t appreciate him when he’s by your side. This stuff is noticeable, even if we want to close our eyes.

12. It is not uncommon for this person to contact you. When it does, you rejoice and hang on to it. Stop and think. How many times have you done it? Whoever really wants you will do their best to get to know you. If you are almost always the one who takes this step, your interest is not the same.

13. His words are not in line with his actions. He can promise the stars, but then work the other way around. Important: a person speaks through his actions.

14. He doesn’t count on you for important decisions. It gives the feeling that “it’s going for free”.

15. When you show a disagreement on something or there is a discussion, Show no interest in solving it and it is always you who end up giving in even if you think you are right for fear of losing it.

16. Seems like he never has time for you and everything else is more urgent.

17. It doesn’t make you feel special. Doubts about everything, you feel small and insecure.

18. He don’t care how your day was. These types of details are important when it comes to assessing the other person’s concern for our life.

19. He doesn’t remember the important things you told him about yourself. Maybe he didn’t care the moment you told them, which shows a lack of interest.

20. He doesn’t care if you’re comfortable or not by his side.

21. You feel less affection for yourself than you think. Displays of affection are important and we need to pay attention to how we feel about it.

22. When you are with him or her, it doesn’t make you want them anymore, But rather the opposite. This is very dangerous. When we decide to share our life with someone in good health, it is to feel stronger. And often, even though we don’t want to see it, if the person next to us doesn’t want us, we start to value ourselves less.

23. It doesn’t mean anything too personal. Your conversations become mundane and when you want to deepen you turn the subject off.

24. You’re more of a bad time than a good one. If we decide to have a relationship, it is to enrich our existence. When you impoverish it, you have to stop and think that’s what’s going on.

25. It doesn’t respect when you need your space. If you want something, you don’t care if you’re busy or it’s not the right time.

26. When you ask him it’s not clear. Either they want you or they don’t want you. There is no middle ground here.

27. You live in the hope that things will change. As much as it hurts, that’s enough. We cannot be with someone who hopes it will be different in the future. Because it probably isn’t, and we’re wasting time in the present.

28. Much of your environment tells you so. Sometimes we can’t see things objectively. If the people who really want us are warning us that the person next to us doesn’t want us or at least not the way we need them, maybe they’re a little right.

29. One day yes, one day no. He makes plans he can’t makeHe calls you when he’s interested but then if he has something he sells you at the first change. We all have priorities, make sure you don’t have yours in the first place that get you last.

30. You feel like he doesn’t want you. This is where we made a thousand arguments to justify his behavior. If in a relationship you don’t feel loved / or maybe it’s because they don’t want you. And if they want you, it might not be the way you need it.

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