The times are changing. It seems unthinkable, but only twenty years ago, a citizen of the street had the opportunity to meet other people only in the physical environments he frequented: university, office, places of leisure …
Today, we are one click away from meeting people to have a romantic encounter with. If you are aware of the new trends, you will have noticed that there are apps to link to. In this article, and thanks to the data obtained and studied by Badoo (the largest dating app in the world), we can address this reality and detect certain patterns that make us more attractive in this digital world.
Do youWhy pay attention to Badoo? Quite simply, after more than 10 years of experience in the industry and more than 370 million users worldwide are in the best position to give advice and thus be successful in online dating.
How do I create a link using an app? 7 tips that work
If there are profiles that generate great interest in these dating apps and others that aren’t, then it makes sense to think that there are tips that work and others that just generate a rejection.
Let’s find out what are the tips to be more attractive in these applications. Are you ready?
1. Correctly select your profile picture
In a previous article, and also thanks to data provided by Badoo, we revealed which types of profile photos are the most used by users and the most successful.
Profile photos that work and therefore maximize your chances of attracting “matches” have the following requirements:
- Your face is displayed correctly
- They look upbeat, but not necessarily smiling
- Color photo better than black and white
- Avoid overly artistic photos
2. Introduce yourself as someone with positive passions and hobbies.
We are much more likely to meet someone who conveys values such as optimism and joviality, And who enjoys positive hobbies. Think about it: do you prefer to share moments with someone who doesn’t leave home, or with an athlete, or a climber, or a traveler …?
This is not to exaggerate. If you really have quieter hobbies (reading, video games) … you can also find your perfect partner through dating apps. But if you have an adventurous soul, you need to tap into this version of yourself ASAP.
3. “Matches”: 10 minutes a day is enough
To encourage other people to “correspond” with you, spend 5 to 10 minutes a day on the app. You know: in Badoo is the chorus or swipe the profile to the right of the people you would like to meet.
The algorithms of these apps for finding a mate have a predilection for users who interact more often, so the chances of accumulating matches accumulate over time. It’s up to you to manage these nascent interactions to join an in-person meeting.
4. Be original, creative and respectful
Once you have a few matches with some girls or boys you like, here is the part where the interaction will mark the fate of that potential relationship. In Badoo, they have detected that some styles of interaction are much more powerful than others.
There is no point in being cold or overly pedantic. I just know simple but creative and most of all, always keep good manners and let the person you interact with notice that you care about their feelings.
5. Get an idea of your expectations
Life changes, surprises, uncertain … But when you start a conversation with a person in a dating app, you should have a minimal idea of what to expect from that interaction. That is to say: are you looking for a partner? Are you just looking to have sporadic sex encounters? Maybe you are interested in a friendship “and whatnot”?
Being honest when there starts to be some intimacy with your “game” is a great idea. You don’t have to uncover all of your cards on the first change, but you need to give signals of what you’re looking for and what you’re not, and see if that person thinks the same as well, so you don’t not waste time. if you are not on the same wave.
6. Analyze the profile of your matches carefully
If you spend a few minutes exploring the profile of your matches, you will be able to gain valuable information that will help you create an environment of sympathy.. For example, his interests and hobbies can make us see how well we get along with him. And if we have hobbies in common, what better excuse to start a conversation around them?
Ultimately, when we are looking to have a romantic encounter, we can’t wait to feel comfortable with the person we meet. It is not a universal maxim, but having common interests is a great facilitator: communication will be more fluid.
7. Avoid anything that makes you appear frivolous or superficial.
Even if you’re only interested in sporadic dating, showing off a superficial appearance is never a good cover letter. For several reasons: other users may not take you very seriously, so interactions will be very one-dimensional and gender-oriented … Maybe you’re just looking for that, but … isn’t it better to leave a door open for something more to find someone you really like?
To avoid making the image too superficial, take a moment to complete and improve the list of interests, hobbies and tastes, so that other users know that in addition to being a physical, you are a person who finds out if they win it.