The powerful habit of choosing in life

Everything in our lives is based on elections. Elections can come for many reasons, some are economic, comfort, desires or feelings.

Either way, it becomes an engine for us to move forward and forward, whether we make a mistake or not. Sometimes we advance on a path that is not the easiest or in the right direction or that we had not thought of at the beginning, but despite the difficulties we always find a moment to wonder: how did I get there ? How did I get into this job that I love so much? Who would have told me that I would end up with this person I had known for a long time?

The decisions we make get us where we are now. However, what is really true and necessary is movement, change, evolution of position, as happens in chess.

A universe of decisions

These choices range from small things like what we’re going to eat today or what clothes we wear, to more relevant choices like what we’d like to work with, what we want to spend our time on Sunday afternoon, or who we want. by our side. At a certain age, there is a time when you realize what makes you happy and in what you want to invest your energies. As we know, and as many Spanish sayings go, experiences should be lived in the first person who learns them.

As we have been told so many times, throughout our lives we will experience hundreds of new things, pleasant and / or unpleasant but always instructive. Therefore, as sunsets are added to our life calendar, we gain knowledge that will be added to our experiential library. Our brains tend to remember positive experiences and “pull a thick veil” over those memories or situations that have damaged us for some reason.

Stop and think about the people around you for a moment, If you are proud or proud to be part of your daily life, month after month or year after year. As Carlos Miguel Cortés says very well, it is not always a question of time but of intensity. There are people who run through your life for a while and are with you in your thoughts all your life, instead, people you have in your day-to-day life who eventually get diluted over time.

Therefore, you need to think about whether the people you currently have in your life are choosing them to be here, whether they enrich your experiences, whether they bring you unforgettable moments, whether they make you be in harmony or whether you need them. they revolutionize you. and they improve the way you look at things.

Choose to grow as a people

At this point we can say:

I choose you, to be in my life. I choose you every day deliberately and freely, without ties. I choose you knowing that nothing is eternal (or yes) and that one day you cannot choose me. Just knowing that you are sharing your time with me because you care. I choose you because I feel I want you to be a part of my time and my experiences. I choose you because I think I can be a better person with that choice, with those businesses that work with me over time. This is why I can tell you that the people I meet in my life right now are not coincidence, each of them is for some reason.

And you, do you choose consciously?

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